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Monday, 9 June 2014

| Don't Sight |

Penulis : Cahaya Kesabaran Masa : 20:33 Comments : 0 Labels :

Hello's everyone. Let's start our day with bismillah & end with alhamdulillah.

Don't sigh when do something. It's just a test has given by Allah. Remember that Allah won't put us in a situation we can't handle. He knows we are strong enough to face the tests. That's why He gives us the test. So who we are to against Him? We are just a slaves. In the end, we will return to Him.

When we're sigh,

"Hmphh, I'm so tired..."
Allah replied; "WE made the night for rest and sleep and the day to rise again seeking the bounty of your lord." [78;9]

When we're sigh,

"Beratnya dugaan ini.. I couldn't bear these trials.."
Allah replied; "Allah doesn't charge a soul except (with that within) its capacity." [2:286]

When we're sigh,

"Ergh, I am depressed!

"Allah replied; "Verily, in the remembrance of Allah the hearts find their rest." [13:28]

When we're sigh,

"No matter what I do, it's probably useless."
Allah replied; "So whoever does an atoms weight of good will see it." [99:7]

When we're sigh,

"Nobody understand me. Nobody listens to me. Nobody helps me. :("
Allah replied; "Call upon Me, I will respond to you." [40:60]

When we're sigh,

"I feel so sad.. I need someone to count my tears.."
Allah replied; "La tahzan, inallaha ma'ana. Be not sad. Surely, Allah is with us." [9:40]

When you're in trouble, always remember that Allah is always with you.

Verily, the help of Allah is near. But how near are you to Allah?

Death is always chasing us and we are running from it.. But when Allah Taa'la wants, it will catch us at any time or place.

Let's, improve our faith and become a better servant of Allah.

JazakumuAllah hu Khairan for reading this.
May We All In The Grace of God

| Mengejar Mardhatilah |

Penulis : Cahaya Kesabaran Masa : 20:24 Comments : 0 Labels :

Pernah dengar tak?
Apa maksud jahilliyah?

Baiklah. Jahilliyah merupakan perkataan yang berasal daripada bahasa Arab iaitu Jahil.
Maksudnya ialah bodoh atau tidak tahu.
Golongan jahilliyah merupakan golongan bahasa Arab sebelum kedatangan Islam.
Mereka mengamalkan rasuah dalam perniagaan, penzinaan berleluasa, arak sebagai minuman harian, bayi perempuan ditanam hidup-hidup dan sebagainya.

Kedatangan Islam yang disampaikan oleh Rasulullah s.a.w yang merupakan seorang Bangsa Quraisy telah membawa 'nur' kepada jiwa-jiwa 'gelap' golongan jahilliyah.

Islam suatu ketika dahulu sungguh hebat. Bukan hebat sekali, tetapi hebat berkali-kali.
Kejayaan mereka dalam memerangi musuh Islam bukan sahaj dapat dibuktikan dengan kepimpinan yang utuh, strategik yang berkesan bahkan juga akhlak Islam yang sangat terpuji.

Namun begitu, Islam kini ditindas. Penyakit jahilliyah semakin menular. Jiwa-jiwa remaja Islam kini umpama tidak pernah mengenal Tuhan, Nabi, Rasul.
Nama Islam hanya hebat sebagai sejarah.
Adakah kita mahu perkara ini berlarutan?


Ayuh! Kita buktikan.
Perjuangan Islam tidak akan sesekali berhenti di sini.
Kita buktikan dengan amalan!
Kita buktikan dengan sikap!
Kita buktikan dengan istiqamah!
Kita buktikan cinta kita kepada Allah!
Kita buktikan cinta kita kepada Rasul, ummah dan sebagainya!

Kita boleh! Dengan pertolongan dari Allah Azza Wajalla.

Untuk mendapat mardhatillah.


Untuk mencapai tahap kejaayan yang tertinggi.

Mesti bermula dari satu langkah.
Tiada jalan pintas.
Tiada undur diri.

Niatkan atas redha Allah.

Muhasabah diri.


Untuk hidupkan suasana dakwah memang payah.
Perit, pedih, sukar.

Namun, berapa lama kita mahu mengeluh?

Dakwah itu, memerlukan permulaan.
Mulakanlah dari diri kita.
Dengan jiwa yang inginkan redha Allah.


Aku, Dia dan Tajwid.

Aku lihat wajahmu, nafasku tersekat umpama saktah. Senyumanmu yang cantik itu membuatkan hatiku condong kepadamu bagaikan Imalah. Aku ingin zahirkan cintaku sejelasnya dan terang kepadamu umpana Izhar Halqi. Aku harap cintaku padamu lebih panjang daripada Mad Lazim Harfi Muthaqal dan namamu akan aku masukkan dalam hatiku bagaikan Idgham Bila Ghunnah. Aku tidak akan mencari ihsan lain dalam hatiku dan hanya kamu dalam hatiku persis Idgham Mutamathilain dan bukannya ada pegganti selepas kehilangan seakan Idgham Mutaqarribain. Ingatlah, namamu tinggal dalam diriku sampai bila-bila seraut hukum Isymam.


100 advices from Qur'an.

Do not mix the truth with falsehood. [2:42]
Order righteousness to people only after practising it yourself. [2:44]
Do not commit abuse on the earth. [2:60]
Do not prevent people from mosques. [2:114]
Do not follow anyone blindly. [2:170]
Do not break the promise. [2:177]
Do not engage in bribery. [2:188]
Fight only with those who fight you. [2:190]
Keep the etiquettes of war. [2:191]
Protect orphans. [2:220]
Do not have sexual intercouse during menstrual period. [2.222]
Breast feed your children for two complete years. [2:233]
Choose rules by their merit. [2:247]
No compulsion in religion. [2:256]
Do not invalidate charity with reminders. [2:264]
Hepl those in need by finding them. [2:273]
Do not consume interest. [2:275]
Grant more time to repay if the debtor is in hard time. [2:280]
Write down the debt. [2:282]
Keep the trust. [2:283]
Do not spy and backbite. [2:283]
Believe in all prophets. [2:285]
Do not burden a person beyong his scope. [2:286]
Do not become divided. [3:103]
Restain anger. [3:134]
Do not be rude in speech. [3:159]
Think deeply about the wonders and creation of this universe. [3:191]
Men and women have equal rewards for their deeds. [3:195]
Wealth of dead should be distributed among his family members. [4:7]
Women also have the right for inheritance. [4:7]
Do not devour the property of orphans. [4:10]
Do not marry those in your blood relation. [4:23]
Do not consume one another's wealth unjustly. [4:29]
Family should be lead by men. [4:34]
Be good to others. [4:36]
Do not miserly. [4:37]
Do not keep envy. [4:54]
Judge with justice between people. [4:58]
Do not kill each other. [4:92]
Do not be an advocate for deceitful. [4:105]
Standout firmly for justice. [4:135]
Cooperate in righteouness. [5:2]
Do not cooperate in sin and aggression. [5:2]
Dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine are prohibited. [5:3]
Be just. [5:8]
Punish crimes in an exemplary way. [5:38]
Strive against sinful and unlawful. [5:63]
Avoid intoxicants and alcohol. [5:90]
Do not gamble. [5:90]
Do not insult others deities. [6:108]
Having majority is not a criterion of truth. [6:116]
Do not reduce weight or measure to cheat people. [6:152]
Do not be arrogant. [7:13]
Eat and drink, but not excessive. [7:31]
Wear good cloths during prayer times. [7:31]
Forgive others for their mistakes. [7:199]
Do not turn back in battle. [8:15]
Protect and help those who seek protection. [9:6]
Keep purity. [9:108]
Never give up hope of Allah's Mercy. [12:87]
Allah will forgive to those who have done wrong out of ignorance. [16:119]
Invitation to God should be with wisdom and good instruction. [16:125]
No one will bear others sins. [17:15]
Be dutiful to parents. [17:23]
Do not say a word of disrespect to parents. [17:23]
Do not spent money extravagantly. [17:29]
Do not kill your children for fear of poverty. [17:31]
Do not approach unlawful sexual intercouse. [17:32]
Do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge. [17:36]
Speak to people mildly. [20:44]
Keep aloof from what is vain. [23:3]
Do not enter others house without seeking permission. [24:27]
Allah will provide security for those who believe only in Allah. [24:55]
Do not enter parents private room without asking permission. [24:58]
Walk on earth in humility. [24:63]
Do not neglect your portion of this world. [28:77]
Invoke not any other god along with Allah. [28:88]
Do not engage in homosexuality. [29:29]
Enjoin right, forbid wrong. [31:17]
Do not walk in insolance through the earth. [31:18]
Lower your voice. [31:19]
Women should not display their finery. [33:33]
Allah forgives all sins. [39:53]
Do not despair of the mercy of Allah. [39:53]
Repel evil by good. [41:34]
Decide on affairs by consultation. [42:38]
Try for settlement between people. [49:9]
Do not ridicule others. [49:11]
Avoid suspicion. [49:12]
Most noble of you is the most righteous. [49:13]
Honor quests. [51:26]
Spent wealth in charity. [57:7]
No monasticism in relagion. [57:27]
Those who have knowledge will be given a higher degree by Allah. [58:11]
Treat non-muslims in a kind and fair manner. [60:8]
Save yourself from covetousnedd. [64:16]
Seek forgiveness of Allah. He is Forgiving and Merciful. [73:20]
Do not repel one who asks. [93:10]
Encourage feeding poor. [107:3]

Please share.
Allah will grant you the reward for spreading righteousness.

JazakumuAllah hu Khairan for reading this.
May We All In The Grace o
f God

| How to stop doing same sins repeatedly? |

Penulis : Cahaya Kesabaran Masa : 20:15 Comments : 0 Labels :

Who isn't sad when repeatedly commit them same mistakes over and over again after being determined to change. Who isn't stressed when spinning the same mistakes though was determined not to repeat again. Who did not cry when the sin which we have been able to leave it in quite some time, we finally defeated and repeat the sin. ☹

Who is sad and crying about it? Once we have the heart of life, if we have faith even a single bit, definitely being sad, depressed, anxious, nervous, despondent and regret haunt our minds! (>'.'<)

But until when?!?!

Until when? How long do we want to repeat that we hate sins, for how long we want to stay jailed in pressure sin and evil? Until when, O friend..!

Writing this, I write with a sense of guilt, with the hope that my own sin is free from the prison ordeal, with the hope of that the writer can provide some guidance, spirit, strength, inspiration, understanding, confusion and obstacles that occur to those who STRIVE to CHANGE.

I write with tears falling down on my cheek. I am really hoping all of us can please Allah. I have seen with my eyes how people love and trust Allah, can turn out to be "weird" and proud of committing sins.. Oh... I was sad and I cried!

I will try to explain you these things one by one, little by little and more detail..

3 important points that we will soak up.
1) The extent of repentance.
2) The law of ourselves.
3) Do not commit overt sin.

How extent your repentance?

A lot of people asking, spilling out, wondering, being disturbed, sad, and becoming weak when thinking about this...

"Does Allah will accept my repentance if I still repeat my sins?"

Feeling guilty is surrounded around the people. Various types of questions as proposed to calm the agitated heart. Among the questions asking me makes me speechless:

"Ukhti, I really want to change, and I had the intention to change. I always regretted of my sins, but the problem is, I still can not change! As if there was nothing to stop me .."
"Ukhti, I have vowed to not want to repeat my sins, but I lost..."
"Ukhti, how do we want to strip the dirty things in our minds..?"
"Ukhti, how to stay away from sins? Tell me. I will try to change your guidance.."
"Ukhti, if we do not shed tears of repentance, does our repentance are not sincere?"
"Ukhti, I always commit sin, then repent, then I repeat the sin and repent. But I can not take it anyome and repeat the sins again, then turned back. Does Allah will accept my repentance?"

And so on...

O friends.. How extent your repentance that really sincere? What is the meaning of repentance? I want to explain about repentance from several angles. I hope we really understand, appreciate, and feel that Allah is ever Forgiving.

1) Repentance means we feel guilty of sins, repent, ask for forgiveness and resolve not to repeat the error. That's 3 pillars of repentance. Guilt, ask for forgiveness, and committed we not want to commit the sins repeatedly.

2) But as far as we are sincere in repentance? We can just pray and du'a:

"O Allah, I'm sorry for committing sins and I regret. So.. please forgive me. I and determined not to repeat my sins over and over again!"

But the fact is, in the corner of our hearts, the du'a is nothing but posing no slightest regret and repent. Sincerity in repentance only the knowledge of Allah and ourselves! If we are sincere, the feeling of conscious would come! Crying is one of the proofs we are honest with our regret.

Not just that, feelings of regret is eventually cause us to do all possible to leave the sins that we regret. If that happens, then that's our sincere repentance.

3) After we repent with sincerely but NEGLIGENCE OF OUR WEAKNESS unimpossible for us to slip and fall again into the same hole. However, if we are SINCERE in our first repentance, He will forgive us in advance, and for the sin which we have just made, we need to repent again. If we are defeated again, then repent again. Allah is a Forgiver.

But sincerity cannot pretend and act!

4) It should be understood, we're weak and humiliated! Sometimes, we fall again into the same hole after repent. We fall in the same hole does not mean we are insincere in our repentance before. But this is because of our weakness, we fall in the same hole even before this we had realized.

If things like this happen (already repent, caused the weakness, we repeat the same sins and blah blah blah..) Hence, we have to repent over and over again every time we commit sin. Do not give up! Once we despair, it means the devil successful influence us. But Allah will never weary to forgive us no matter how bad we are!

That's Allah's Forgiver. But, do not take advantage of! However, it has been said by Ibn Qayyim:

"The most foolish man is the one who knows Allah is ever Forgiving. Hence, he made ​​that excuses for him to commit sins."

We don't know when we die. Once, we died when committing sins. Pewh. Once, we died when we are not repent yet.. big mistake! And that's why.. do not delay repent, if could, after reading this entry, please repent! o(╥﹏╥)o

But remember, repentance can not act. It issues HEART. People nowdays, many people think when he has repented but in his heart, there's no bit of guilt even when committing sins. What the heck?

Our law.

I want to share to everyone about these things. This method is the best method for us to improve ourselves and the best way to make us no longer tempted committing sins. I call this as: "The way to manipulate the devils."

In this way, as if the satan would "incite" us to leave sins (supposedly). The trick is WE JUDGE OURSELF after committing vices and sins!

Yeah. We all knew that satan would tell us to do things that hurt us and rewarding him. So, when we committing sin, it hurt us and please the satan! But, if we judge ourselves, it is very effective! Let me explain a way to manipulate satan:

1) We determined, each time we commit a sin, we will punish ourselves with a good charity. For example, we target:

"Every time I suck cigarette, I will read the quran 1 constituents!"
"If I see the video is not good, I will alms RM50 at the mosque and then I will fast three days!"
"If I'm not going congregation dawn prayers at the mosque, I will fine myself to read religious books of 100 pages!"

2) When we punish ourselves by the law, then the satan will begin to doubt whether we do not commit sins or not. Because if he tempts us to suck cigarette, he knew that we would fine ourselves by reading the quran 1 constituent. Reading one constituent of the quran is very detrimental to the satan and increase our faith multiplied!

3) In the Arabic language, this way is called "Iqob" which means "fine". That's what the companions do! I'll story a few examples of IQOB that the companions do:

"There's a companion, while he was praying at the garden, suddenly in the middle of the prayer, he saw a bird and the bird cause he is not humble. After performing prayers, his friend noticed that he was not humble and he regretted. Thus, he contribute the garden to the Muslims!"

4) I want to advance any evidence, how effectively this way! So that the satan would incited us to leave sin! How valuable the law when we fine ourselves every time we commit sins!
Do not commit overt sins!

Seriously this thing do take note. For once when we commit a blatant sin, it means that we are very proud committing sins and that is the beginning of self destruction! I guess everybody knows what is a sin. I just want to sample some of the common sins that people frequently do without guilt.

1) Firstly, ikhtilat. But the problem is, nowdays, a lot of people know but proudly chatting in cyberspace outright as a comment "hahahah", tweeting on twitter with bravely mention names, comment on instagram and others. What? Is this a smart, macho yet sweet friends?
If you can't control the ikhtilat, do not commit it outright. Please, feel ashamed ppl know the vices that we do. If you really want to commit, please in private messages, direct messages and the same thing with it (even though it is wrong). The point is, feeling ashamed when committing sins.
2) Secondly, watching a movie and listening lagha song. Do we need to tell others about the lagha song? Whereas we already knew the law of listening Kpop songs, Justin bieber, lady gaga, and berates oriented songs illegally. We already knew!
But why we are proud to tell people that we are listening to the laghasongs? For example on twitter:

"#Nowplaying Wrecking Ball // Miley Cyrus."
"#Nowplaying Gangnam Style // PSY."
"#Nowwatching Titanic."
If you can not leave lagha songs and movies, do not tell others and feel shy! If you want to to it, please do it unaccompanied.

I am very appealing, please taste the guilt and shame. Take care and do not tell others of our embarassment. Allah has kept our embarrassment. Why do we must tell others about the sins that we do?
The irony is the best way to leave dices is to do good deeds as much as possible with istiqamah. Please salah.. Never leave it. I'm very appealing!

Start from now, familiarize yourself with prayer, start familiarized yourself with the Quran, wet your tongue with remembrances of Allah. And please, find friend who can support you for your changes and chatting with them. Follow them tarbiyyah and usrah, it is the centerpiece of our faith in order to be safe!

I'm sure, a lot of people who want to change. Stay strong, to keep the spirit, move forward, move on. Do not mind what people say, du'a to Allah! I believe that we can. Once we are able to change, we will crying joy, tears of gratitude and tears of happiness of His favors. And we will repent sadly and laugh to ourselves...because it is strange for us us who love committing sins as if it is very painful.

I'll pray for you all. And I want to seek your favor, please pray for me. May Allah reward us Jannah. Ameen. ◕‿◕

JazakumuAllah hu Khairan for reading this.
May We All In The Grace of God

| Berhenti Mengeluh |

Penulis : Cahaya Kesabaran Masa : 19:53 Comments : 0 Labels :

Alhamdulillah..Allah masih lagi memberi kesempatan kepada diri ini untuk taip segala macam kat dalam belog ni.Dah lama rasanya x menaip , okey straigh to the point ,,,....
Ya ya ya. Aku, kau, dia, kita, selalu je cuba nak tarbiyah diri kita ni kan. Tapi, Allah. Mulut ni selalu je terbabas dalam berkata kata. Orang kata, ikut hati binasa. Aku pulak kata, ikut hati, inshaaAllah tak binasa lagi. Sebab hati atau diri kita ni boleh ditarbiyah dengan kata kata positif.

Kalau aku, aku tarbiyah diri aku ni kasar sikit. Biar aku rasa. Sedar diri sikit yang hidup ni dah tak lama. Bebila aku, kita, dia, engkau, boleh mati. Dunia ni bebila boleh kiamat. Hancur binasa. Dan kita semua ni akan dikumpulkan di padang masyar. Masa tu...

Pada hari itu sahabat-sahabat karib: setengahnya akan menjadi musuh
kepada setengahnya yang lain, kecuali orang-orang yang persahabatannya
berdasarkan taqwa (iman dan amal salih).
[Az-Zukhruf: 67]

Jadi, tanya diri kita apa lagi yang kita tak puas lagi? Nikmat yang Dia bagi kemainlah banyak. Nikmat yang paling kita patut hargai dan sememangnya patut dihargai adalah nikmat oksigen. Bernafas. Bro, kita ni patut bersyukur tahu yang kita ni boleh bernafas lagi. Bila dah tamat, maknanya masa tu dah kat dalam kubur latu. Masa tu nak jawab apa kat malaikat? Nak jawab apa dengan Allah? Tepuk dada, tanya iman. Kalau bunyi tu, maknanya hati kita belum mati lagi. Masih ada masa lagi nak taubat. Yang lain Allah settle. Sama ada diterima atau tak semua yang kita lakukan kat dunia.

Tembak bebanyak soalan tarbiyah kat diri sendiri. Bagi sedaq.

Diri ini seperti masih tak sedar diri,
Walaupun banyak nikmat diberi,
Rasa syukur masih kurang dirasai,
Tanda syukur pula kurang di beri,
Pada Pencipta yang sentiasa menemani.

Pada hati hati yang mati,
Bangunlah sebelum jasad yang mati.
Bila dah mati, dah tak guna nak taubat lagi.
Tunggulah pada balasan yang menanti.

Maka nikmat Tuhan kamu yang manakah yang kamu dustakan?"

JazakumuAllah hu Khairan for reading this.
May We All In The Grace of God